What is exclusive possession of the matrimonial home?
Exclusive possession is the Family Law Act order that decides who lives in the matrimonial home during a separation, overriding both title and the usual equal right of possession. It protects occupancy, most often for the children’s stability, while changing nothing about ownership or the eventual division of the home’s value.

Shawn Hinchey
Broker, Hinchey Homes Real Estate Team
RECO registered, TRESA compliant, 18+ years in Durham Region real estate
Published: July 26, 2026
What the order does, and deliberately does not do
Ordinarily both spouses hold an equal right to possession of the matrimonial home. Section 24 lets a court override that: one spouse receives exclusive possession for the period the court directs, and the other must leave, even a spouse who owns the home outright. What the order pointedly does not touch is money. Title stays where it was, the home’s value still flows through equalization, and the leaving spouse’s share of the eventual proceeds is unaffected. Courts can also attach practical terms: who pays the household bills, periodic payments between spouses and who keeps the contents, so the occupancy and its costs are decided as one package.
The criteria courts actually weigh
The statute lists them: the best interests of the children affected, which the Act unpacks into the disruption a move would cause and the child’s own views where they can be ascertained; each spouse’s financial position; existing orders and written agreements; whether other suitable and affordable accommodation is available; and any violence against the spouse or children, which Ontario courts have read to include serious non-physical abuse. Commentary distills the threshold into practical language: the applicant generally shows that continued cohabitation is impractical and the balance of convenience favours them. It is interim relief by design, typically holding the household stable while the larger resolution is negotiated.
Teeth, and the interaction with selling
Breaching an exclusive possession order is an offence with real penalties, fines up to $5,000 and up to three months’ imprisonment for a first offence, more for repeats, and police can arrest without a warrant on reasonable grounds. On the sale side, the order restrains dealing with the home while it stands: any authorized disposition is subject to the possession right, and an outstanding order can complicate or delay a forced-sale application. In practice, many exclusive possession situations still end in an agreed sale later, on a timeline that respects the order’s purpose, usually the school year or the children’s transition.
For unmarried couples, the door is different
Exclusive possession is a married-spouses remedy. A common-law partner cannot obtain it, because the matrimonial home provisions simply do not apply. The alternative routes address different problems: a restraining order where safety is at issue, tenancy protections where the partner is a tenant and trust claims where ownership itself is disputed. None of them replicates section 24, which is one of the sharpest legal differences between marriage and cohabitation in Ontario, and a reason unmarried homeowners separating should get advice before making any move on the home.
This is legal information about Ontario law, not legal advice. Exclusive possession is a serious, fact-driven remedy; consult an Ontario family law lawyer.
Sources
- Family Law Act, R.S.O. 1990, c. F.3, s. 24
- Shulman & Partners, Exclusive possession of the matrimonial home
- Feldstein Family Law Group, Can I get exclusive possession of the matrimonial home?
Information on this page is deemed to be reliable but we make no representation or warranty as to its accuracy or completeness. It is general information, not legal, tax, mortgage or insurance advice.
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